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I would advise the OP to focus more on taking care of himself.

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I'm covered; it's not really an issue in this particular situation. (FYP)


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It is OK to realize that you have the right to emotionally divest yourself from her at this time.

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I have the right to walk away, sure... I'm won't, though.

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Otherwise, I would just tell the OP to remind himself that there is little that he (she?) can do to help. Indeed, it is extremely painful to watch addicts spiral downwards into the abyss, especially when it is nearly impossible to help.

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i aggree with you, but, man, that really sucks, huh?

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Sincerely,

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thanks. -B