Missy, i'm with you on this one. There is nothing inherently wrong with you letting dude share your bed. I've slept in other girls beds when i've had a girlfriend, i i bet a bunch of these haters have as well. it is case specific though, and i'd only be cool with it if dude in question was a good friend of girl in question. don't be to hard on the boyfriend, anyone (myself included) would think twice about this. If this really is the girl in question, and you stumbled across this thread somehow, this is f-ing hilarious. wwwooowwww.