[Alobar]

uhm, wtf? You dont want her there, why are you stressing? Just dont invite her. Are you going to invite every homeless person over too just cuz you dont want them to be alone?

I dont know any of the backstory, but it just sounds like a lot of drama. who needs that. So shes alone on thanksgiving, so what? Millions of people will be, its not going to be the end of her world. Allow her the opportunity to move on and forward from her life with you.

People place entirely to much emphasise on the holidays. If you have to have some arbitrary day on a calendar remind you of whats important in life..........