That's the first thing I noticed on hand 1 also, the fact that QJ is now dead to you. You may be butting heads against AQ or something of that sort also, but in that big of a pot, I know I just couldn't make myself fold for 1 bet.

Hand 2, the more I look at it, I kinda like the fold. Again, I doubt I'm folding this cuz I'm a fish, but I think he's gonna turn over AA/KK quite often.