[car ramrod]

I think I have to raise the turn in hand 1.
She could easily have AQ, QQ, JJ, TT. You did say she raises a lot. I would raise the turn and see hows she plays it from there.

Hand 2 I may fear we're behind. But I would still have to throw a raise in there some where, maybe thats spewing? I like to raise the flop, we may get some info from him. I would rather him 3 bet the flop then the turn.
Then again according to your read, he has AK or AA more often, so maybe the same line you took, check call river.(that feels so weak tight) but I don't want to get raised, either way I want to show down.