I think you played the entire 1st hand too aggressively. But if you're going to play it aggressively do so on the flop. If you 3 bet preflop and then it gets capped, ok, thats fine. Now he has the momentum and will bet on the flop most of the time but theres the super scary 22 out there. So was he raising AA 45 preflop which you might push him off on the turn or does he have A2QQ and your dead? Take the aggressive stance on the flop and give it up to a 3 bet. If he calls then no biggie. You do have the runner runner draws and you may get to make them for free if he doesnt bet the turn.