Older Women
I met this girl at the jazz club last weekend. I think we had been introduced before, but we hadn't talked any. She seemed pretty cool, though, and she was cute enough, so I got her number. When she was giving it to me, she said something about, "Wow, I haven't written my number on a bar napkin in like 10 years." That was a little unexpected. I made her for about my age (a week short of 24), so I mostly wrote it off as humorous exaggeration (but also cautiously noted that if this girl hasn't had a date in a while, she may very well be crazy). I ran into her again last night. We chatted over a couple beers (she appreciates good beer - big bonus points) and really hit it off. I was watching her this time, though, for clues as to her real age. It was weird. Sometimes she'd look at me and she'd look like she was 21. And then a little bit later she'd change her demeanor in a manner that made her look more like 35. Finally, though, she comes out and asks me how old I am, and I find out that she's 31. That puts me within her range if we apply the "half your age plus 7" rule to her, but I'm still not sure how weird this is/would be.
So, I've decided to turn to OOT (may God have mercy on my soul [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] ). How much older have women been that guys here have dated (or younger men, if you're gorie)? How much older would you be willing to go? What about for a one night stand (either have done, or would do)? Are there any attributes that you'd require an older woman to have above and beyond your criteria for girls your age before you'd consider getting involved with her? Any other misc. thoughts?
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