Re: jobs are important ?
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right now they live with someone that supports them but the person supporting them doesn't like this, and doesn't treat them very well because of it.
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again, this is key. the relationship shoudl be the most important thing. if the slacker is not willing to compromise for the good of the relationship, then both parties should probably go their separate ways.
to me this doesn't boil down to money, it boils down to respect and caring for the person bearing the burden of supporting both.
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i agree...
it can be tough when you're depressed though. i think a lot of it is "if they love me it shouldn't be a big deal" or something, which is bad. but considering "money doesn't equal happiness" it some how makes sense in their confused head.
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