[NDHand]

I didnt think your phone move was TOO arrogant, it was just about the right amount you need in dating! Great advice on aggression... think of rejection as a bad beat. Will you stop betting aggressively with your strong hands just because that calling station might draw out and crack them on the river? Same with dating. Play strong and confident, bet, raise, semi-bluff and if a bad beat comes, big deal, say "next hand" and keep on playing!