[car ramrod]

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Im thinking, why is it wrong to bet the flop here? I want to find out where in the hand I am and he may 3-bet me preflop with worse hands like JJ and QQ here.

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betting to 'find out where you are' is never really a good idea. So, he raises, now where do you think you are? behind? So, you find out, and then call down?

How many hands are these stats from. If a decent amount, I am check/folding this river, maybe even the turn.