[spliff]

There is no way to get out of this.

You wan't to be all-in, one way or the other. No flush-draws and only a minor straight poosibility.

You might want to bet out the possible straight draw even though it is not very likely or you might want to slowplay.

Anyways; when 2 players hit sets with pocket pairs, and the board is not heavily coordinated, the biggest set wins big - not much to do about that IMO.