Re: Girl at a Bar. Your Play?
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the easy out of a note
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State changes are crucial to picking up a girl. You need to be bold and confident enough to change her state, (at the very least) - at some point in the pickup, whether at the beginning or at the end. By using "easy outs", you show a lack of confidence, which hurts your growing "track record" towards whether you can change her state. This "track record" is important, because having sex with her is also a state change.
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What follows is advice for the OP on picking up girls.
Instead of this nonsense [censored], try this: mess with her ('wanna fight? great, then we can have makeup sex - just kidding, we don't need to fight to do that') and in general being either very cocky/funny or playful (dont answer her [censored]-test questions directly! agree and misinterpret); until she asks rapport based questions, and then play with her a little initially ('whats your name?' 'guess?')to fractionate the change to rapport-mode so that she doesnt blow you out.
The key is not #'s or dates - it is about her agreement that she wants to see you again. Afterwards, details can be figured later. Concentrate on being an interesting guy with alot of stuff going on. Go for an instadate. Your goal should (in a pickup) always be to have the girl go home with you. You can use the "day2-like" instadates to make her more comfortable during rapport with you, and also to further isolate her from the environment (and thus closer to you.)
At the place, remember "two steps foward, one step back" and plow through resistance. <u>Congratulations! You have successfully done what millions of people do every day.</u>
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Just curious...how many people are locked up in your basement?
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