You played the flop like a little girlie woman. Your not a girlie woman, are you? Raise it to $12-14, and then re-evaluate if they decide to call. On the turn, I like your raise, although you should have done it one street earlier. On the river, there arent a ton of hands that will call you down here ... but I think Jx and 8x will call you down often enough. I really doubt he would have checked the river with a made flush or straight. I think this is a good spot to extract value (albeit marginal)