i didnt actually find preflop that meterosexual, i probably play it the same....

flop, i think you have to check/fold, reverse implied odds are huge here. if your gonna bet out, you have to lay it down when raised.

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990 games 0.078 secs 12,692 games/sec

Board: 9c 3c 2c
Dead:

equity (%) win (%) tie (%)
Hand 1: 48.4848 % 48.48% 00.00% { Ah3h }
Hand 2: 51.5152 % 51.52% 00.00% { KcJd }

this is almost a best case scenario, and you still arent ahead... it gets worse with something like

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990 games 0.005 secs 198,000 games/sec

Board: 9c 3c 2c
Dead:

equity (%) win (%) tie (%)
Hand 1: 14.0404 % 14.04% 00.00% { Ah3h }
Hand 2: 85.9596 % 85.96% 00.00% { Kc9h }

and even worse with

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990 games 0.005 secs 198,000 games/sec

Board: 9c 3c 2c
Dead:

equity (%) win (%) tie (%)
Hand 1: 02.4242 % 02.42% 00.00% { Ah3h }
Hand 2: 97.5758 % 97.58% 00.00% { AcTc }

i guess the pot is decent sized, but thats only due to the amount of players in it, one of which has you beat here.

as for the river, i think you have to check/call there for bluff induction. if he was on ui overs with a club all hand he aint paying your bet off, but he might bluff at it hoping you were on the same.