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Much of this thread is pointlessly hung up with judging other people by one's own standards or situation.

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I guess, but I suspect there's also an undercurrent of vastly underestimating how much it costs to raise a family.

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If so, it's surely because many of the people who post here regularly are too young to have a family, or appreciate how much things can cost.