I feel that the "ooooh" caused you to fold. At first, it seemed to me that she was playing a flopped flush with AKc. The fact that she took another look at her hand means that she didn't know if she had a club, so I think your original read with AA-QQ is correct. In the long run, you won't make money folding into big pots for a single bet, and this is an example of why (ie pots do come up where there's no flush on this board).

I think call/fold is your best option here. I don't like the raise, because if the BB actually has a flush with a big PP, you will be 3-bet, and you will have lost 2 big bets on the river.