I think we still deserve an explanation
william, the explanation is of a personal nature that i won't be posting. if the lack of a good explanation is something that bothers you, for that i'm sorry.
i did not mean to hurt or mislead anyone, and ghost is someone i love dearly, so neither was it his intention to cause problems.
i DO wish he had not posted to start with, because i am not 100% free to post right now. however, he blew it enough that i thought it best to come back and say hello, and try to participate in some fashion, limited or not.
As jim pointed out, i'm not a little old granny, so enjoy the persona or ignore it. if i am going to do some limited posting, it will be as GrannyMae for now.
i know this was no explanation, but it is the best i can do.