A few more things :

First off, I appreciate the reality check.

Second, the girl suggested we meet for coffee, not myself. The first time she suggested it I agreed, but only in the general sense (we should meet sometime). I felt it would have been rude not to meet her (although that may not be my only motive).

Third, I have never cheated on a girlfriend, and have had the opportunity two times before (as in the girl flat out offered sex).

Should I then just not meet this girl for coffee? What do I tell her? Is it not possible to be friends with her? I enjoy the exchange of ideas and debates we have (her being a fan of Ayn Rand, and well my beliefs are indicated by my name). Is this not possible to have?