i think youre drawing to a straight 8 outs on avg. with KQ being possible in a few places, and other possible spade draws. id probably bet the flop and see what you can get outta there, maybe cleaning up your Js and Ts and other flush draws. you got 2 overs and 2 backdoor draws. and if you pick one of them up, check behind on the turn. bet it if you hit a pair. ABC cant have A9s cuz the 9s hits the river. and even with 3 bets to you on the river, i dont think you have to see it down with only a J hi flush on a paired board. i dont think youre getting enough to call 2 cold on the turn is the bottom line. and youre not even closing the action. the BB could have any 2 for 2 pr, UTG probably hit the Q with KQ-QT, but seens as its your friend, you should know what he has. whats to say youre gonna get any action on the river? just my 2 cents, but what do i know