grunch...

1) we cap
2) we 3bet
3) we slow down... unless we have reason to believe we may have fold equity; such as he calls the flop checkraise
4) depends entirely on the action. if we got in a position to check/call the turn we can checkraise the river. if we led the turn we need to lead the river

Edit: I think we need to cap the flop for metagame considerations. against an aggressive player he aint gonna forget that you capped against him, whether you hit or not; and he aint attacking your blinds so lightly next time.