My thinking is that if she is cuddling and letting you give her massages then you can kiss her. If you truly, honestly think that she just wants to be friends, kiss her anyways. If she doesn't like it, [censored] it, you tried. Find someone else who DOES like it. Trust me when I say this, it is better to not be friends with a girl you want especially if she knows it. She will just use you if she knows you want her because she knows you will do whatever she wants in an attempt to impress her. When I learned I was being used I went out and got another girl to make her jelous, and it worked rather well. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]