http://www.cdc.gov/std/Herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm#common
Genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately one out of four women) than in men (almost one out of five). This may be due to male-to-female transmissions being more likely than female-to-male transmission.
Most of them probably don't know it though.
Good luck, and you should be proud of yourself for being honest. Many of the people giving you [censored] in this thread probably have it too. See a shrink for psychological help on dealing with this [censored].