[neorab]

I'm friends with a few attractive girls and it's never been a problem. Neither with single girls or girls with boyfriends (or boys with boyfriends for that matter). I have a girlfriend and we are in a very healthy relationship.

I think that makes all the differance. Before we were together I don't think I could be friends with girls because of the attraction. Now there is no attraction because I've found my mate. But I have a very low sex drive in comparison to everyone I know, so maybe that's it.