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Im drunk so bear with me

You all have very sound judgementt and alike judgements.

I told her today thtat she can either choose me or choose this [censored] clown COLLIN and go to europe with him. i told her that doing this is not only disregarding my feelings and wants, but it's just a downright [censored] up thing to do.

if I were in her shoes, I would have no desire to leave. now it's on her, she can either choose me, or choose the [censored] highway

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Good choice, almost as good as leaving her outright. You do realize even if she doesnt go with him your relationship is still doomed? Any chick that is going to put this situation on you will resent you for not letting her do it, just dump her.