Re: Girl Dilemma
Just lighten up!
Have fun with her, make it clear it's fun, go see her, and you guys enjoy yourselves. I'd assume the friends with benefits thing, and go with it. You can't reserve her as yours alone if that's the way it is though - be very, very clear on that - it'll fubar your head if you intend that but can't handle it!
Anything more serious than this...hmmm....Long distance will be a lot of work, obviously, and will mostly lead to problems and failure - so be realistic about that (doesn't mean it's not worth trying, if you really want to, though).
HOWEVER: If you've not done a lot of going out/being with/partying with women before all this though, I'd definitely try and get some of this in. You need to be sure you're not into her cos she's available and a safe option for you. You need to be into her because it's her, if that makes sense.
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