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Old 11-17-2005, 04:13 AM
Sykes Sykes is offline
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Default Re: My girlfriend wants me to stop playing!

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I can't believe what I am reading here.

Do ANY of you EVER get laid? Or do you just sit drinking brews with your mates complaining about what bitches women are?

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I would rather not get laid then have some stupid bitch tell me what I should do with my time.

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She is NOT a controlling bitch.


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Yes, she is. But it's okay, 99% of women are.
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She is NOT making a power play.


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Yes, she is. To not think so is foolish.
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She is NOT concerned with his poker playing.


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Maybe, Maybe not.
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In almost every case I have ever encountered like this, the situation is that she is feeling neglected by her boyfriend and is taking it out on the one thing that he loves most.


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And this is what makes her a bitch.

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What this means is that he is probably not spending quality time with her. They may spend time together, but he is probably not doing special things for her, probably not making her feel like she is important to him, and probably not doing what he needs to do to keep his woman happy.


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Then it seems this relationship is doomed.
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Lets face it - none of us is perfect and we all have our ego and our pride. It is EXTREMELY difficult for a woman to come out and say "I don't feel like you treat me like I am special" - that is very hard to do.

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And we're supposed to have some special ESP sensor that says "women need more loving". By the way, no one is special.

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What you NEED to do is to sit down with her and talk about what is really going on for her. Is it really about the poker or is it about the time you guys spend together? Maybe try and sugges that you guys establish some ground rules - you will still play the same number of hours, but you will do them at specific times when she is not around - and then when she is around, you will not play poker at all - things like that.


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Way to give over the reins of power. Seriously, were your nuts chopped off the first time you got laid? Women should be bowing down to us.
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