the people that berated you need to learn what "slowroll" means. it is not possible to do online. slowroll is when the hand is already over and you wait for everyone to turn there cards up and you take your time to turn yours up when you know that you already have the nuts. sort of giving someone else the impression that they have the best hand because no one else has spoken up, then all of a sudden you turn yours up and take the pot. that is why it is considered bad etiquette. the software online immediately determines the winner when all betting is done and a slowroll is not possible.