[phlup]

Dude, this is complete crap. 15-20 hours a week is not bad at all. You go to class for what, 15-18 hours a week? So add those together and it's less time than a normal job. She is just trying to see how much control she has over your life. Don't let her do this. If playing 15-20 hours a week is cutting in to your time together with her, you guys see each other too much.

I rowed crew in college. 20 hours a week when we weren't on the water and racing. Once we hit racing season, 4 hours a day and gone Friday-Sunday. Girls understood this and we made it work. It really wasn't hard when you have a good girl who doesn't get jealous when you don't spend every moment with them.

So yeah, don't let her do this. Sit her down and explain your point of view. Tell her you love spending time with her, but in the big picture 15 hours a week isn't much. I know you spend more than that apart anyway.