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All my life I've had horrible eye contact. Whenever i look someone in the eye and talk, my words get jumboed. it doesnt matter male/female, young/old.

it's like i can't do those 2 things at the same time.

What's wrong with me?

And suggestions on how to fix it?

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Bluff!!! Let your eyes wander wherever is comfortable for you, as you talk. Then quickly look in the person's eyes for a few moments as a ....... at the end of your last sentence. Repeat the bluff when it is your turn to speak again. That way you will not have to talk and look at the same time, while leaving the impression that you did. Have a nice weekend! [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]