[Jdanz]

this is kinda what i'm saying, but i think people are massively overreacting to dinner and movies.

The idea that this relationship needs to be "salvaged" is just complete overkill in my mind.

I know i'm going to be in the minority here, but i frankly wouldn't give a damn at all if my girlfriend went to dinner/movies with a guy friend. I'd be more uncomfortable if the guy wanted to get in her pants, but i legitimately wouldn't care that much.

I think the 1 in 10 comment i made early is really important here. If you can't trust your girlfriend with a guy that likes her that YOU ARE AWARE OF how can you expect to really trust her ever, in any meaningful way.

I would be really really pissed if my girlfriend had the audacity to tell me who i could and couldn't have dinner with.