Re: Course of Action with Girls When in a Serious Relationship
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The tricky thing is that, for women, all that talking tends to create a male-female attachment. Don't you think? A man takes an interest in her ideas/thoughts/dreams/interests...makes her laugh...pays attention to her...that can be the start of a great friendship. (It can also be the setup for great sex, too. I guess that's where the wall comes in.)
Walls and flirting. Some women/relationships, a man/woman can't flirt. Flirting leads to f***ing.
Other relationships, a man/woman *can* flirt because they *know* there won't be any f***ing.
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Yea. I guess I hope if the wall is there and I tell them I know the wall is there, they'll believe me and not worry about it. But you're right, both parties have to be in control of themselves enough to nipe any trouble in the bud. Personally, for me once I put the wall up, I have no problems.
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