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is it a dick move not to want to get with her because it wouldn't involve sex?

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No it isn't. If sex isn't involved in a relationship then it isn't worth the time. If you want to try to work your way up to the point where sex is the next step, if she denies you then, to hell with her. This sounds like a case of religous brainwashing to me if you think you can unbrainwash her go for it. If this virginity thing seems set in stone then just fold and don't even think about trying to go all in. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]