Re: How to answer this common female question?
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consider also the fact that if you ever settle down with a woman for the long haul, she will become fat and unattractive.
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this is something that i am really struggling with.
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Why? Not all women become fat. The previous statement is bullshit. Ever been to a gym? How many 40+ soccer moms are in there busting their asses to not get fat?
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That's the thing. So many people say that their personal choices are really just something that couldn't be helped, and try to dodge responsibility for it. Pregnancy just "happens," becoming fat just can't be helped, getting weak is natural, relationships lose their vitality automatically. The truth is, there are choices all along the way. If we make our choices, we should at least acknowledge them, not try to pass them off as fate or some other crap like that. When you get older, you won't be as fit as you were when young, but you don't have to be lazy. You don't have to eat like a child instead of an adult. The age at which people accept being overweight is falling rapidly, and it's ridiculous at this point. Marriage is not a license to stop caring anymore.
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