Re: giving your gf money...
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i think this is a bad move...most of us have been in that situation so im not being unsympathetic. She doesnt have ANY bills to pay except living at home and most people get paid monthly or every two weeks, so i dont know why this is an issue unless she doesnt know how to budget her money. She seems to be in a pretty good gas situation in comparison to some (i think these cars have a 13-14 gallon tank, not a 10, might be wrong though) You are already buying her things she wants and slipping her money that she knows about (and doesnt reject...which im not sure how to take this) but this to me doesnt help her...it makes her more dependent on others when she already has so little to take care of on her own anyway. Im not sure how her ankle factors in here though, is it preventing her from working? Does she not have health insurance?
Its one thing to help her if you see her struggling really hard and she is doing all you can but its another to give her most of what she wants and then give her money for other things without her even asking, human nature makes people come to expect this stuff and money ruins alot of relationships - when things get rocky she may not come unless u give her gas money or buy her things, or she might expect it and be let down if u dont, or even see u in another light
...its a touchy subject and hard to give any solid advice without knowing more...with this info it doesnt seem like a smart move...good luck either way
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