Re: giving your gf money...
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piano lesson
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yea i shoulda specified...its a grand piano that has monthly payments...she teaches herself.
anyways, i think you also have a good point...i just feel bad when she feels bad and want her to be happy, or at least not worried about the next week or whatever...
Barron
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It is very understandable and as I said before you seem like a really good guy.
If she is unhappy with her financial situation, she needs to make a change. It should not be your burden to carry.
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While good advice is some types of relationships, this is atrocious advice in a long term, committed relationship with two people who have vast disparities in income and wealth. I cannot say whether the first qualifier is true here but it damn sure sounds like the second is.
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