Re: Do you or have you ever dyed your hair? (Men only)
well like I said in my first post ultimately you are the only one who has to look himself in the mirror and if it makes you happy well then be happy.
But for me, I find it similar to the boob job. I don't like the idea that a bunch of otherwise happy guys have convinced themselves that they need to do things like dye their hair. It's not like you are even looking at your hair most of the time so on some level it has to be about self image.
Like I said if it makes you are some other dude happy to die your hair then what is what you should do. I just don't see it as a true change but rather a masking of your true self. Your hair is still X color.
Is this black and white? obviously not. Am I subject to the same pressures? Yes. I just think it would be better if as men we collectively reduced and ignored these collective pressures(involving much more than simple hair dye) from the current level.
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