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Ok so my wife just caught me in a pretty big lie, basically for the last week I have lied to her about how often I have missed class. Now we both work at the same place, on different floors. Needless to say she is pissed and pretty hurt. I feel terrible and don't know what to do. Basically I need ideas about how to make this thing right again.


Figure I could get a few serious responses in with the normal razzing.

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Dude. How can you lie to your wife? That's just wrong. You are right to feel like crap.

Start with asking for forgivness, proceed to re-assurance it will never happen again and then move on to gifts.

Keep in mind you are fighting an uphill battle. Don't get defensive if it takes a little while.

If you cannot trust your spouse to be 100% honest with you, who can you trust? Of course she's hurt.

It will be easy for the idiots here to say "be a man" bla bla bla, but it sounds like you already know you have made a huge mistake so don't listen to them.

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I agree I have had the problem in the past where I kind of lie about trival stuff and I don't even know why. But besides the fact that I obviously have a problem.

What do you guys think I should do about this. We get off work at the same time but we are in two different cars, should I stop and get flowers or something like that or is that just stupid.