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Just tell her that you have no interest in being with her after she jerked you around so much. Bringing up that you were spying on her just makes you look bad. Trust me, she will throw it back at you and things will get really messy.

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i have caught her going thru my cell phone when i stepped out of the room one time... she'd do the same thing to me in my situation.