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No, I am not in physical danger.. the abuse is emtional, and on a scale of 1-10, is probably only a 7.

I'm going to ask our marriage counselor about a specialist. I'm also going to see a lawyer about legal options.

It sounds like no one has ever gone through a post-nup here. To be honest, that is one of the more appealing options to me as it seems that it would keep the financial issue from escalating over time while allowing me to see if the issues w/my wife can be resolved.