[MEbenhoe]

At the ages you're at 31 and 19 is too big of an age gap. If you were 42 and 30 its a different story, but 12 years when one of the people involved is still only 19 seems too large to overcome. You are at completely different stages in life, one would assume.

edit: don't let me stop you though, and good luck if you choose to pursue, just saying it may be hard if you do.