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i'll take a shot at this one. let me know what you think.

i am guessing that you are young, maybe sub 20.

i am guessing that this is maybe your first major relationship with a woman that is not you mom.

i am guessing that you never had to share your mom with other families that she just went off and mothered while you were growing up.

i am guessing that you are somewhere in the middle of learning the all-important life lesson that girlfriends/wives are not supposed to be mommy replacements and that's why you can't lose that intense feeling that you deserve their exclusive love. a lot of guys take a long time to figure this out. actually, some never do figure this out.

i emphasize that these are ALL guesses. i may be way off base, if so just put me on ignore.