Re: Accused wrongly of cheating
I prefer a more subtle response. Direct confrontation that embarrasses them in public will probably have a worse effect on you than on them, i.e. anyone who sees or hears about the scene will not be sure who is in the right but all will make certain that they never are on the receiving end of your diatribes by avoiding any contact with you.
I suggest you talk to the golf pro or other person who can match you up with other players who need a fourth. This will give you opportunity to spend time with other members and develope friendships.
Do NOT bring up the issue. If they bring it up, just say it saddens you that they feel this way and hope you can resolve the issue to everyone's satisfaction. PERIOD. Word will get around that you're a nice guy who doesn't seem the type to cheat people and that, in any case, you have a lot of class.
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