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One way I see to repair the damage is to find an established member who is well-respected to take you under his wing. You need to get a handle on the political situation to determine if your reputation can be rehabilitated. Also, take it easy on the gambling for a while unless you are certain you aren't going to clean everyone out. I'm not advocating losing on purpose (that is WRONG all the time unless you are playing your 4-year old nephew), but taking on some one who is more skilled might not be a bad idea. Remember to most people, a club is a social setting. Noone wants Tiger Woods playing in their rec golf league for side cash. You can't be blamed for being competitive and winning, but sour grapes and poor sportsmanship have soured many a relationship. Good luck to you!