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Old 08-01-2005, 06:41 PM
DrunkIrish05 DrunkIrish05 is offline
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Default Re: Since there\'s no girl problem thread on 1st page....

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So then I bring up the point of what about when we get back, can we be more than friends and start something?

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this is where you went wrong.

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why's that? should i have not said anything until we got back, in your opinion?

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This is one of those funny things with dating, you can't be completely honest about how you feel or it will push her away and give it no chance. Right now, you are obviously more into her than she is into you. She is probably not thinking about that far in the future, and hearing that you are already thinking that far ahead and that you are already willing to give it a chance now even though that is way in the future is just gonna push her away further. Give her space when you're apart and maybe you'll be able to give it a try again when she gets back.

However, I GUARANTEE that if you push now for her to tell you that she will for sure give it a chance later on, then there is absolutely no chance she shows any interest in you when she comes back.

hope that makes a little sense at least
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