Re: Was I out of line here?
You were out of line. Reverse the roles, where you ask her to come spend the night with you, she tells you she really can't because it's a long drive & she just has to drive back home in the morning & she has a bunch of stuff she needs to do tomorrow, and then you find out later that she went out drinking with her friends.
Wouldn't you be a bit upset?
You're young. In time you'll learn that the only possible course of action after declining to spend the night with her was to call her before you went to the party to explain the circumstances to her. And ask if she'd like to come.
That is, if you don't want to end up where you are.
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