Re: I think we fear it can all go away...
This is what they call learning, it's part of your evolutionaty instinct, a built in mechanism for improvement. I know it seems like a curse, but is really a blessing. When you lose, you reflect on the situations and you think about how you could have played differently and then you figure out how to get better.
If you lose and you just feel sorry for yourself and consider yourself (in your words) "a victim of variance" then you probably think that you are better than you really are, so just get over yourself already.
Blazman
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