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If you're ever unsure if you can proceed you say "is this cool?" and react accordingly. Honest to god, it's not that tricky. Girls are not complicated. They're just people.

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Cool, sex advice from Bison! I've got a question then,

Bison-
I want certain things in bed but don't want to hurt her feelings after it's been a couple years. Like wow it would be nice if you'd stop lying there like a limp doll but actually act more aggressive and put your hands on me. Would this be best accomplished before, during or after in order to not make her mad or hurt? I've actually tried this a couple times during the act but it seems to not stick with her the next time. I know, very dumb bed partner.