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i am serious.

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Are you really? I do not understand why.

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i guess my reason for saying that is that i'm attracted to things i can't have, and i like abuse.

this one guy i know is really sexy when he decides he is too cool to talk to me. which is 90% of the time. then 9% of the time he is talking to me, but being mean.. yet i keep wanting to hump him?

am i serious about her really finding that attractive ? not really. but depending on the girl, there is a possibility of it leaving her wondering why, to the point of bugging you trying to 'fix something'. which then of course leads to you getting annoyed and having to say "LISTEN, YOU'RE UGLY, AND YOU ARE CLINGY, STOP BUGGING ME" and then she cries.

i'd say best thing to do is call/email (did you actually make plans for your second date?) and say something like "hey, i've been thinking and i'm gonna have to cancel our date, it was nice meeting you but i'm not ready for a relationship." ?

or just ignore her calls like most guys would. i'm sure she'd figure it out.. regardless of what you do, i'm sure she'll get over it.