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<ul type="square"> [*]You are 39 and unmarried.[*] You can get some if you need some.[*] Your friend's wife died.[*] You helped take care of his kids (9-11) through their grieving but have had much less contact in recent years.[*] One of his daughters is now over 18 and you have the distinct impression she wants you to jump your bones. Not that she's slutting on you - I think you guys know what I mean.[*] She is very hot. Compared to your normal options she is a goddess.[*] You do love her and think she is something special. If it was realistic, which is isn't, you would take this woman as your wife.[*] There is no way you could live this down if it came out.[/list]
O.O.pinions?
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If you REALLY care for her you will pass. Her infatuation with you will wane. I think as an authority figure and the more mature person in this relationship you have a responsibility to do the right thing by her.