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depends on what you mean by this. if it means your friends would make fun of you, so what go for it. if it means you would be ostracized from all your relationships, maybe it's not worth it. but hey, i am not one to get on someone's case about age differences in a relationship, so i say do what you think is best for
you. you only live once.
edit: i just reread your post and realized that your friend, her father, is still alive. i think banging his daughter, regardless of her age, after his wife had died, requires AT LEAST his permission. you should probably just keep your fantasies to yourself though and leave her alone...after all this is your widower friend's daughter.